In my last blog entry ( as in waaay back 4 months ago),we made a resolution to date at least once a week. Well that never happened. Lol. To say we were preoccupied with a lot of things is an understatement.
Since it is our 7-month anniversary, I was expecting something special from my husband. That afternoon, he told me to be ready as we will be having dinner elsewhere. I was trying to conceal my excitement by joking that anywhere will do as long as I'm with him. (more cheese please) He jokingly replied that he already made reservations at Jollibee. (more corn please) I was surprised alright!
That evening, he brought me to 100 Revolving Restaurant. It is the only revolving restaurant owned by Chef Jessie. One can gently feel the slight movement as the restaurant rotates on its axis.
We were ushered to our seats by the panoramic window overlooking the metropolis. What a lovely sight for a lovely evening that awaits us.
While choosing from their wide range of menu, the courteous waiter offered us complimentary uhh...bread. I really cannot pass for a food blogger as I cannot describe food. So I will not try. Lol.
We stared of with salad (description from the menu)
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| HIS: Mesclun Greens with tropical fruits and crispy oyster mushroom with raspberry vinaigrette dressing |
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| HERS: Seared tuna salad sprinkled with roasted garlic peanuts, and sesame seeds on a bed of lettuce with paremesan flakes, nori stripes and wasabi vinaigrette dressing |
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| HERS: Clam and corn chowder soup |
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| HIS: French onion Soup |
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| HIS: Grilled Lamb chops with vegetable roulade |
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| HERS: Chilean Sea bass with Pan-fried Gooseliver |
Aside from the delicious food, I was really happy that I am able to spend time alone with my husband. Married couples should date every so often. It makes us stay connected and more intimate with each other. Couples who don't date also tend to talk more about the kids, work, other things, except EACH OTHER! A listening ear and an interested sincere heart makes up for a good date.
One time at home, I was feeling a little dejected as I told DS, "Even though we are always together, it seems I don't know you... you feel so distant." There is no emotional connection. I am glad DS came up with a topic for us to talk about that evening. Are you ready? (drumroll please) "What are the things you learned in our seven years of marriage?" =)
Knowing DS for 7 years, I discovered that he is really kuripot. Five years of going steady and I didn't found that out?? Well, I learned to adapt quite well (didn't I, hon?) As a wife, I should submit. He knew I was going to object if I found out that he'll be taking me to a fancy restaurant. So he kept it a secret from me until we arrived.
He knew I love to eat. I like trying new dishes and savoring the flavor. Because of that, he even ordered the best selling dishes on the menu for me! (I really feel the love hon ♥) While he, on the other hand, cannot distinguish Burger A from Burger B. As long as it's edible, he eats.
So what DID we learn? Seven years seem so long yet so fleeting. During those years, we've already been through a lot, both good and bad. I realized how blessed we are to have each other. Yes, there were surprises about our individual personalities that only surfaced after marriage, but that's what commitment is all about. I appreciate DS for sticking it out with me during the most turbulent time (so far) of our married life, for being my encourager, for always seeing the best and bringing out the best in me.
We realized that expectations of each other often lead to disappointments, but communicated needs and positive expectations can lead to fulfillment and us becoming better spouses.
100 is located at 33rd floor MDC Bldg. C5 cor. Eastwood Drive Q.C.
